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Managing Big Emotions Through Movement

Given the popularity of the first two Managing Big Emotions Printable Posters (you can find poster one here and poster two here), today I have teamed up with the author of Kids Yoga Stories, Giselle Shardlow, to bring you a simple yoga series to use as a calm down activity with your child. Be sure to read through Giselle’s suggestions for introducing the series, especially if you have never tried yoga with your child before.

Calm Down Yoga Routine for kids - help children manage big emotions

Imagine that your child has a friend over for a play date. They are busy playing together, when suddenly your child’s Lego structure gets knocked down. From your child’s facial expression, you see that she is about to explode. You catch her eye and give her the signal. Then she darts away to her “calm zone,” where you hear her counting down from five, while going through five yoga poses for kids. There’s a break of silence, and then after a little bit, your child comes back down to resume play. You look at each other and wink.

Sounds blissful, right? But it is possible. Helping children to regulate their emotions doesn’t necessarily happen overnight. Science tells us that the parts of the human brain that are critical to handling emotions aren’t fully developed until into we’re in our twenties, but we can take little steps when children are young to help them manage their feelings.

Brain research shows us that movement and breath help to alleviate stress and anxiety. Our bodies are designed to move—just think about how many miles a day the cave people used to run every day. Modern people lead mostly sedentary lives, and we almost have to relearn how to use movement to lead happy and healthy lives.

Managing Emotions through Yoga Poses for Kids

Don’t worry if your family hasn’t tried yoga before; use the images and descriptions below as a guide. Focus on using movement to invite calm, and don’t worry about practicing perfectly aligned poses. Ensure that your child has enough space to practice the poses so that they aren’t bumping heads or stubbing toes. And make sure that they are safe with their bodies. For example, they shouldn’t be trying to wrap themselves into pretzels or bending into deep back bends. Have them focus on gentle movement that feels comfortable. This process will help to increase their body awareness, too.

Introduce the idea of yoga and the yoga poses long before the tantrum starts, so you’ll be familiar with the routine when it’s time to take action. Your child will feed off your enthusiasm when you introduce this yoga-pose sequence. Explain that it’s good for their brain. Introduce the “Move to Calm” strategy when you are both in a good mood and connected with each other. You might find yourself practicing the yoga pose sequence to manage your own emotions, too!

As your child goes through the flow of these five yoga poses, he can pretend to be a surfer, tree, skier, dog, and owl. If he’s interested, he could also state the corresponding “I am…” statements. Once he is comfortable with the yoga-pose sequence, he can take a deep breath in and a deep breath out during each pose, to further help to calm his body and mind.

So let’s look at the Move to Calm strategy. Depending on the age and needs of your child, you might practice only one yoga pose (like Child’s Pose) and count down from five while in that pose. But let’s say your child is ready to choose five yoga poses. She could make up her own sequence by looking at our Yoga Poses for Kids page for inspiration or by following this yoga flow sequence.

WARRIOR_2_POSE“I am strong.” Pretend to be a surfer.
To do Warrior 2 Pose: From standing position, step one foot back, placing the foot so that it is facing slightly outwards. Take your arms up in parallel to the ground, bend your front knee, and look forward. Pretend to be a surfer and use your strength to catch tricky waves.

 

TREE_POSE“I am kind.” Pretend to be a tree.
To do Tree Pose: Stand on one leg, bend your knee, place the sole of your foot on the opposite inner thigh, and balance. Sway like a tree. Think of trees being kind by offering shade, creating oxygen, and providing homes to animals.

 

CHAIR_POSE“I am brave.” Pretend to be a skier.
To do Chair Pose: Stand tall with your feet hip-width apart, bend your knees, and keep a straight spine. Hold your hands out in front of you, pretending to grasp ski poles as you fly down a ski run like a brave and fearless skier.

 

DOWNWARD_DOG_POSE“I am friendly.” Pretend to be a dog.

To do Downward-Facing Dog Pose: Bend down and place your palms flat on the ground. Step your feet back to create an upside-down V shape with your buttocks high in the air. Straighten your legs, relax your head and neck, and look down between your legs. Think of being an eager and friendly dog.

 

HERO_POSE“I am wise.” Pretend to be an owl.
To do Hero Pose: Drop your knees to the ground and come down to rest upright on your heels. Then pretend to be a wise owl perched on a tree. Twist your upper body one way and then the other.

Start slowly and focus on your child’s success. If your child doesn’t click with using movement as a calming down strategy, don’t push it. Leave it for a while, and then try again. Just like every strategy, nothing is a one-size-fits-all solution, so feel free to adapt and change the yoga method to suit your child’s interests and needs. Introducing the idea of using movement and breath to help their brains to re-boot and re-focus is what’s important.

To download your poster: Click on your chosen poster image below – there are two versions for you to choose from. This will open a larger PDF version that you can download to your own computer. Open the PDF and print. When printing, select “Fit to printable area” (or similar) to ensure the page fits with your printer type and local paper size (these have been created at A4 size). I printed ours onto matte photo paper. Personal, non commercial use only.

Calm Down Yoga Routine for kids - help children manage big emotions Calm Down for Kids Poster copy

A reminder: These posters are as much, if not more, for the parent or significant adult helping the child manage these emotions, as they are for the child. They are a tool to open discussion with your child about having a calm down plan and they can act as a visual prompt to help you (the adult) as you guide your child in that moment when they are struggling to manage. You know your child best and so while this process will work well for some children, it may not work for others. In the same way, their effectiveness will depend on the age and development of your child. I share these as a tool that might just work in your parenting toolkit.

Did this “Move to Calm” strategy work to help your child manage his emotions? Did you make adaptations that worked for you? We would love to hear from you. Please tell us about your experience in the comments below.

Kids Yoga StoriesGiselle Shardlow is the author of Kids Yoga Stories. Her yoga books for kids get children learning, moving, and having fun. Giselle draws from her experiences as a teacher, traveler, yogi, and mom to write the yoga stories found in her Kids Yoga Stories store or on Amazon worldwide. The purpose of her yoga books is to foster happy, healthy, and globally educated children. She lives in Boston with her husband and daughter. You can also connect with Giselle on Facebook, Twitter and Pinterest.

If you haven’t yet, print each of the other three posters in the series by clicking on each image below

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Comments

  1. I’ve printed out and used both of the behaviour posters you’ve created and I’m really excited to use this one! Thanks for all the hard work.

  2. These are lovely. My son likes to do some yoga poses before bed but I hadn’t thought about using them in this way. Thanks!

  3. We love Giselle’s Yoga Stories here :) I’m looking forward to giving this a try… for both me and my kids!

  4. These are such brilliant resources Christie (and Giselle). Would be great to use with my class of 5 year olds :)

  5. Thank you so much for sharing your time and talent with these free printables.

  6. Fantastic posters and info! I wish I had these when my children were young…

  7. chiminh ashton says:

    Hello,
    I have tried on 2 separate days to print the yoga pose page but when you click on it, it comes up as a blank page. Is there anywhere else to access them for printing?

  8. Printing immediately!

  9. Thank you! :D I think I’ll try these poses and mantras to calm myself, too. <3

  10. Thank you to everybody for your kind words. I truly hope that the yoga printable helps to bring calm to your child’s day. Keep me posted on your feedback!
    Giselle

  11. Pretty Ntshangase says:

    These posters are helpful.

  12. I clicked on the picture but it does not allow me to print it. Can you please provide another link?

  13. What a wonderful concept! I am eager to implement the empowering yoga routine with my class but, disappointed that I won’t be able to utilize the poster. Any plans to create alternate imagery for the poster which better reflects cultural diversity?

    • Hi Brigid
      Great question. These three yoga kids are part of our Kids Yoga Stories series with six yoga kid characters from around the world. The three in the images are: Luke from Australia, Elizabeth from England, and Anamika from India. Not shown here are also: Pablo from Guatemala, Baraka from Africa, and Sophia from USA. Watch for those other yoga kid characters in other posts that I write for Childhood101, or find them on our website, http://www.kidsyogastories.com.
      Hope that helps!
      Giselle

  14. Hi there…I am a high school senior and I have started a music foundation for kids called Brown Eyed Lullabies. I combine lullabies, stories and other night time rituals for children all over the world and especially in hospitals near and far. I love your site and would like to add a link so people can enjoy your gentle yoga and other techniques. Please let me know. Thanx

  15. I love this, but wish that the background was white. It takes a LOT of ink to print a solid color background like that. Any chance of making a version without the background? That way if I want a background, I’ll just print it on a color paper of my choice. :-) I also like the idea of diversifying the people, as mentioned above. Great concept.

  16. these posters are great, thank you! cant wait to use!

  17. Love your website!! I printed the yoga poster and the calming poster. Have been doing yoga with my prekindergarten every morning as a calming activity..They love it.. A lot of positive feedback from my parents as well. I do yoga myself and hadn’t thought about doing it with my class.. Thanks awesome post

  18. Heather says:

    Hi,
    I really enjoy the work you’re doing! Very nice! However, while the words for the yoga poster are characteristics I would love to see in all children, I couldn’t help but notice that the “strong” one is accompanied by a picture of a boy while the others are accompanied by girls. I would rather like to see a girl under “strong”- especially since I read in a previous comment that you are going for “cultural diversity.” I would love to see other alternatives to this poster, I think I will make my own!
    Thanks for the ideas!

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