Those are most definitely not marshmellows!

Last week Immy was ‘blooo-ing’ (otherwise known as ‘gluing’) at the kitchen table with flour/water glue and pictures from catalogues, something she loves to do. The previous day she had enjoyed adding pre-cut craft foam shapes to her painting, so I decided to give her some flowers and circles to add to her gluing masterpiece.

They were gratefully received and I went back to washing the dishes, not more than three metres away. A few minutes later, I turned back to Immy to find her with her hands (and small foam spots) at her mouth. I was alarmed and said, “What are you doing? You can’t eat the spots.”

She responded, “Marshm” (marshmellows – Immy enjoys mini marshmellows as treats).

“No, they are not marshmellows,” I said (in a very stressed, high pitched, what do I do now? voice) as I scooped up all the foam shapes and dumped them out of reach.

“What now?” I thought, unsure if she had actually swallowed any. “Does she need a doctor?” “Will they show up on an xray?” “Do I just wait and see?” All questions that were running through my mind at that split second. She obviously wasn’t choking (a relief) but when I asked her if she ate any, she just said, “Marshm!”

What does a girl do in this type of situation? Sure, I could have called HealthDirect (for those in WA, the number is 1800 022 222 and the line is manned 24 hours a day by qualified nurses) but instead I called my Mum! (Thanks Mum) We talked the options over and I decided to just wait and observe. So far, so good.

Mum is a good person to call as she is no stranger to children and foreign objects. You see, in our family folklore we have a story about a certain two year old (who wishes to remain anonymous), anyway here’s Mum to tell the story…

“I didn’t know anything was wrong until she got a green runny nose, though it was one side of her nose only. I thought it was a cold and so I left it for about 2-3 days until it started to smell.

I took her to the doctors who asked her if she had put anything up her nose – she nodded and probably said ‘yes’ but he couldn’t see anything up her nose and decided to put her on antibiotics, just in case it was infected sinus.

When that didn’t work, they decided to put her into hospital to see if there really was something up her nose – she still had a thick, green runny nose but only from one nostril.

They had to go up from her throat as they couldn’t find it when they went up her nose, it was very close to actually dropping down her throat into her tummy which would have meant she may have become very sick.

It was a long piece of paper, twisted like a corkscrew! Apparently it smelt so bad when they pulled it out that one of the nurses nearly threw up!”

Children are naturally curious and young children (under the age of three years) often put things in their mouths (or up their noses) as part of their natural exploration or play. Although I keep the obvious hazards out of reach (or accessible under supervision!), I would say that it is pretty much impossible to foresee every single choking and/or swallowing possibility (especially as anything smaller than a D-size battery (and larger than a pea) is considered a risk for babies and toddlers). In preparation for any future incidences, I have searched the web and found the following information from the Children, Youth and Women’s Health Service, Parenting and Child Health (South Australia) particularly helpful;

Signs that a swallowing incidence is an emergency

  • trouble breathing, crying or talking
  • coughing that does not clear the airways (the trachea or bronchi)
  • wheezing or noisy breathing
  • trouble swallowing
  • drooling or bringing up saliva
  • loss of consciousness

Is it stuck?

The narrowest part of the gut is the oesophagus (the tube leading down from the throat to the stomach). If an object passes down into the stomach, it will usually pass through the rest of the gut within a few days (usually less than 4 to 5 days, often within 2 days).

Signs that the object may be stuck include:

  • chest or tummy pain
  • not being able, or willing, to swallow food or drink,
  • dribbling or drooling
  • vomiting,
  • becoming unwell, with a fever.

Note: A stuck object may not cause any symptoms at first.

What you can do

  • If there are any symptoms
    • do not give the child anything to eat or drink,
    • do not try to make the child vomit,
    • have the child seen by a doctor as soon as possible, or take the child to a hospital emergency department.
  • If the object was likely to be dangerous (eg. battery, pointed object, tablets, poison, lead sinker, coin), take the child to a doctor as soon as possible.
  • If the object was small, smooth, and not likely to be poisonous (eg. small marble, small coin or button), and there are no symptoms, it is probably reasonable to wait for a while and watch the child, but take the child to a doctor if there are any concerns.
    • Watch the child’s poo to see if the object is passed.
    • If it has not passed in several days, and you are sure that the child did swallow something, take the child to your doctor for advice.
    • Do not give the child laxatives or extra fibre.

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  1. Immy might like to use her marshmellows to decorate arrowroot biscuits – craft and morning tea in one.

    Funny Miss 3 as a baby and I would have been on the phone, Mr 1 does anything like that I put it down to extra fibre. It is easier with the second child. First child nerves will always take over.

  2. This was a very good and informative post. Thanks so much.

  3. Oh dear, you must have been so worried initially! Glad she was ok, thanks for sharing all the information!

  4. Super Sarah says:

    I attribute our final success with toilet training to the marvels that are mini-marshmallows! Sorry Immy gave you a fright. I did a first aid course a few weeks ago and lay awake all that night worrying about all the terrible things that could happen to children.

  5. katepickle says:

    Ah the joys of small children…

    I will never forget the day as a VERY new teacher a small girl picked a daisy, took off every petal and stuffed the centre up her nose… we only found out because she did it three times! Now that was a fun phone call to make!

    Hope everything passes without incident!

  6. nikkishell says:

    My 20 month old had a small blue glass stone (the kind used to decorate plant pots etc) in her nappy the other day when i changed it. In one end, out the other!

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