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Eating Out with Children – The Toddler Edition

Tips for eating out with childrenImmy out to lunch at 11 months

On Father’s Day Dad 101, Immy and I took my Mum and Dad out to dinner at a local family restaurant. We went early (5.30pm) to avoid the crowds and because we eat early every day, it’s what Immy is used to. As we were finishing our meal (about 6.30/6.45pm) another family with a toddler sat at the table next to us. The toddler was obviously tired (and possibly hungry) and for the 20-30 minutes of their family outing that I observed, completely miserable. He whined, cried and tantrum-ed the whole time. I felt for the adults at his table (particularly the women) as they did not look relaxed at all. This in contrast to Immy, who sat at the table and waited for her meal, ate well, and was social with everyone at our table and the wonderful waitstaff.

From this, you might expect that we eat out regularly. We don’t (much as we would love to) however Immy is used to us all sitting together to eat. Whether you eat out once a week, once a month or once a year, I do believe there are simple steps that you can take to make eating out as a family run more smoothly, no matter how often (or how seldom) you do so;

  • Make your restaurant booking for half an hour before you would normally eat. This allows you time to be seated, read the menu, order and (hopefully!) receive your meal before your children start to get whingey due to the fact that they need to eat.
  • Choose restaurants that cater for children and are family friendly. Ask, do they have a kids menu? High chair?
  • Prepare your toddler/child for the outing so that they know what is expected of them. Simply telling them that you are going out to dinner, who is going with you, and a little about what you expect to happen will prepare them for what is to come.
  • When you sit down, remove salt shakers, glasses, candles and other breakables out of your child’s reach. Ask for them to be completely removed from the table if necessary.
  • Order quickly to reduce waiting time.
  • When you arrive, order bread or an entree to share and ask that it be bought out first, so that your child is not waiting too long to begin eating. Alternatively, ask for the child’s meal to come out first.
  • Choose a dish for your child that they are familiar with. We currently stick to fish,chips and salad or a simple pasta for Immy. She still likes to taste whatever we order but I can be reasonably sure that she will eat her meal if its one of these options.
  • Remember to take child sized cutlery, sippy cup, bib and baby wipes or washcloth.
  • Consider taking a favourite toy or drawing materials with you to help keep your child busy at the table whilst you are waiting or for once they have finished eating.
  • Have some small snacks in your bag in case there are any unexpected delays.
  • Use eating out as an opportunity to demonstrate to your toddler/child basic manners and social behaviours. Don’t nag, just gently remind children of manners and your expectations.
  • Don’t feel stressed about any spills or messes, your child is not the first and will not be the last. The dinner mentioned in the introduction, Immy accidentally knocked a bread plate off the table and it smashed. The staff were very gracious in helping me clear the mess.

Do you eat out as a family? What works for you?

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Christie Burnett is a teacher, presenter, writer and the mother of two. She created Childhood 101 as a place for teachers and parents to access engaging, high quality learning ideas.

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Read the comments or scroll down to add your own:

  1. PlanningQueen says

    October 23, 2009 at 4:12 AM

    Such a great list of tips. It is so important to remember that going out to dinner should be an enjoyable family experience. Preparation like you have suggested will give families a greater chance of eating out being a fun time.
  2. Tandanie says

    October 23, 2009 at 4:15 AM

    Immy looks as she also want to order something for herself too... tht's adorable!
    Thanks for the tips. I do practice some of those and overlook some.
  3. CatWay says

    October 23, 2009 at 5:02 AM

    Great tips - worth following because it helps the adults enjoy the experience so much more (as well as the child). I always forget the children's cutlery (and sometimes with very young children it's nice to have an unbreakable bowl/plate too) - you are so prepared.
  4. Anonymous says

    October 23, 2009 at 5:50 AM

    I agree that we should train them at home so that there will be no difference eating out. Thank you for sharing.
  5. Zarina says

    October 23, 2009 at 5:51 AM

    The Anonymous is me - too quick in clicking the button.
  6. Busy Brissy Mum says

    October 24, 2009 at 4:46 AM

    We never leave home without packed activities either and booking for 5/5.30pm works a treat.
  7. Anonymous says

    October 24, 2009 at 11:36 AM

    And we pick restaurants that are naturally noisy..not quiet, intimate places so our four kids natural chatter doesn't overshadow everyone else's conversations.
  8. KidsArtMum says

    October 24, 2009 at 11:37 AM

    Great tips! We eat out occasionally mostly due to the expense involved. We enjoy breakfast and have a local cafe that has toys the kids can play with to keep them from getting into trouble.
    Small kids simply can't sit still at all can they.
  9. Steff says

    October 25, 2009 at 3:57 AM

    I find sticker books absolutly the best - no mess fun and engaging for both girls.
    I also pack some cherios or sultanas for them to nibble on just incase there is a delay
  10. Cat says

    February 5, 2011 at 11:47 AM

    As always some really practical advice Christie. We don't eat dinner out very often but we do go out for breakfast quite regularly and the Bebito copes quite fine despite being an active child. We pack activities and that together with the food and his interest in people watching usually always makes for a pleasant experience. We try to eat family meals together on weekends as much as possible but the Mr is just home way too late to do it more often. When he's not in a high chair (most of the time now) we do find it difficult for him to sit at the table and wait for everyone else to finish eating too (normally me cos I've been helping him with his meal and I'm a slow eater anyway) but we're getting there on that too. I think with some of your tips we may just try an early dinner out some time soon. Thanks!
    • Christie Burnett says

      February 5, 2011 at 8:34 PM

      Thank you for your comment, Cat, going out for breakfast sounds like a fantastic family dining experience. In terms of Bebito staying in a chair which is not a high chair, we have those days too that is why I find having a small, simple activity at hand really helpful.
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