Thinking of a young child discovering their place in the world reminds me of ripples spreading out from a stone dropped into water.
There is much we can do as parents and teachers to support our children as they grow to find a secure place for themselves within each of these ripples. Some initial thoughts…
Being me: providing children the opportunity to exercise choice and a developmentally appropriate degree of independence.
My immediate family: loving your child and responding to their needs quickly, instinctively and gently assist the development of both moral and prosocial behaviours.
My home: consider the impact your home has on a child’s five senses, as well as their sense of security and emotional well being.
My neighborhood: take your baby, toddler or child out walking (bike riding, scooting) through your neighborhood, greet you neighbours as you pass. Watch a local sporting match, visit your local fresh produce market or take part in a community event. Get to know your local parks and green spaces.
My extended family and friends: value the time you have with extended family and friends, especially when it comes to the traditions you share. Model to your child the importance of caring for those who are ill, elderly or going through difficult times. Consider the memories you are making together as family.
My local community: get out as a family into your wider community. Catch a bus or a train, visit a museum or a gallery, attend a regional fair, head out for a bushwalk; take advantage of all your community has to offer.
The world: young children learn about the broader world through reading and engaging with other media, they are absorbing information and ideas all of the time.
“Our identity is also formed by our relationship with the place we inhabit, our community.”Landscapes of Possibility Conference, Reggio Emilia Australia Information Exchange, 2007
I would love to hear your thoughts on how our relationships, our spaces and our communities impact upon the developing identities of our children. How can we take advantage of these influences to support our children to become secure within themselves and within their world?